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When Calling Feels Quiet

  • Writer: darwynboston
    darwynboston
  • May 24
  • 1 min read

Some of the holiest seasons of leadership feel like nothing is happening. You're praying for direction and hearing static. You're waiting for a door to open and the hallway is silent. You're doing the work in front of you faithfully, and it doesn't feel like part of a larger story.

This is not failure. This is hiddenness. And it is one of God's most reliable training methods for the leaders He intends to use for the long haul.

Moses spent forty years tending sheep in Midian after his catastrophic exit from Egypt. David was anointed king as a teenager and didn't sit on the throne for years. Joseph went to prison before he ran an empire. Jesus Himself spent thirty years in obscurity before three years of public ministry. Quiet seasons are not the absence of calling. They are the formation of capacity.

Three things help me when calling feels quiet. First, return to your last clear assignment and do it well. The next direction usually comes through current faithfulness, not through scanning the horizon. Second, audit the soul. What is God doing inside you that He couldn't do if you were busier? Pride, fear, urgency, identity — the still seasons surface what we've been able to hide. Third, gather counsel. Bring three people you trust into the quiet with you and let them help you listen.

The leaders God uses widely are almost always leaders He has waited on first. If calling feels quiet, you may be exactly where you should be — just not where you'll end up.

 
 
 

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